Patience

We Need Gracious Reminders

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“Again! again! Pleeease, read it again.”

“Read that story again, Mama!” If you have children and read to them, you’ve often heard this. I bet—once upon a time—you even said it. I know I drove my mom crazy, pleading for my favorite stories when I was little.

It seems we never tire of stories that bring us joy and comfort. It’s not that we don’t know the story; we just want to be reminded of it again. Author Samuel Johnson wrote, “People need to be reminded more often than they need to be instructed.”I woke today with a deep need for reminding of some specific verses from Psalms 37.

“Do not fret,” the Psalm begins. That’s the feeling I woke with today. At first, I thought I felt angry, but I could think of no object for my anger. It was a nebulous fretfulness, evidence that my heart needed to be unburdened.

Are you fretting? What about? Speak it. Breathe it into the ears of God and let Him bear the burden. It’s His joy to help us obey His commands.

“Trust in the Lord, and do good;dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.” (Psaml 37:3). Trust that God cares. Trust that He wants to help you. Trust that He is good, powerful, and full of loving-kindness and tender mercies. These reflections will help us move on to the good works He’s prepared for us.

In my unsettled state of mind, I thought I had failed to pay some bills that were now past due. I have to feed on His faithfulness because I am not always faithful. After confessing my neglect, I went to pay the bills. I discovered I had paid the bills after all. I was less of an airhead than I thought I was. How silly I was to fret!

“Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart.” Part of delighting in Him is appreciating His will. As we do, His will becomes ours, and He faithfully does His will in and through us. This is why when we “commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass” (Psalm 37:4).

One of the things I’ve fretted over is getting a Bible study I wrote published. I feel like it’s do-or-die. I’ve put it off too long. But my anxiety hints that I’m believing a lie and not trusting God’s timing and His power to bring it to pass or, in this case, press.

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“Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him; do not fret because of him who prospers in his way” (Psalm 37:7).

Ahh—rest—that’s what I need. Rest and patience. I used to think impatience was the opposite of patience until I read Ecclesiastes 7:8, “The end of a thing is better than its beginning; the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.” I’m struggling because I’m proud and want things done on my timetable. Repentance requires me to wait humbly, to wait with a quiet spirit. The truth from this verse I memorized with my granddaughter sums it up best, “Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret—it only causes harm.”

Yes, I needed reminding. Thank You, Abba, for reading me these verses from Psalm 37 again!

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Learning to Pass the Tests of Life: New Perspective for a New Year

(trail + trials2) trails ÷ faith = ?

Do you remember the joy of finding a bright red “A” at the top of your papers in school? I do because I didn’t earn many. However, I did pretty well at math. Covid-19 + 2020 =World wide pandemic. Correct! New Year 2021 = Covid 19 done. Right? Wrong! So, what is God trying to impress upon His children through this trial?

Patience,

My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.” James 1:2-3

Did you notice all the extra trials that came from one illness? I bet you experienced lots of challenges during the pandemic. On top of the coronavirus, we experienced political and civil unrest. American cities lie in apocalyptic ruin due to protestors releasing pent-up rage. 2020 provides a great example of why James used the plural version of the word trial. Trials always come in bunches. He also inserted that pesky word “various,” not only many but also many different kinds of difficulties. How can all these troubles produce patience?

When it comes to patience, this specific fruit of the Spirit, the final exam boils down to getting this one equation right: (trail + trials2) trails ÷ faith = patience. Does the testing of your faith through trying circumstances produce patience? Yes or no: pass or fail. Most Christians pray for patience and soon learn God answers with us with problems. Been there. Done that. God’s “opportunities” for us to grow often stretch what little patience we have. And it’s easy to question His goodness. However, God is good all the time, even during a pandemic.

Therefore, if a better method of teaching patience existed, He’d use it. But alas, longsuffering comes from suffering—a long time. Multiple times.

Understanding God’s formula is one thing; passing the tests is something entirely different. If we refuse to develop patience, one of her ugly cousins gladly takes her place; depression, anger, anxiety, bitterness, clamor—and the most hideous of all, pride (which, by the way, invites all the others).

The opposite of patience is impatience. Right?  Not according to the wisest man who ever lived. Solomon wrote, inspired by the Holy Spirit, “The end of a thing is better than its beginning; The patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit” (Ecclesiastes 7:8). I’ve read the book of Ecclesiastes multiple times in my walk with Jesus; this passage convicts me like no other verse in that book. When I reject God’s education, it reveals I’m a pompous fool, an arrogant idiot. And I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one. When faced with difficulty, if all I crave is a way out (instant results) rather than the Way through (Trust Jesus, with joy), I want my way, not God’s.

I appreciate Jen Wilken’s perspective on longsuffering. “If we can’t be patient longer than five seconds for a website to load, we are not likely to weather a lengthy trial . . .We may overlook the possibility that the waiting itself could be the good and perfect gift, delivered right to our doorstep.” Patience requires humility. I must bow before the Almighty and wait on Him. After all, I prayed for patience, right. As 2021 commences, let’s learn to pass the test with the joy of knowing God works to make us better—more patient.

How have the trials of 2020 developed patience in you?